This is one of the most Googled questions by new moms.
“How long should my baby sleep?”
Because when your baby isn’t sleeping much… you worry.
Here’s the truth:
There is a wide range of normal.
Research-based sleep averages by age
According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine:
Newborn (0–3 months):
14–17 hours total per day
(in short stretches)
4–6 months:
12–16 hours total per day
6–12 months:
12–15 hours total per day
This includes naps and nighttime sleep.
Why newborn sleep is so broken up
Their stomach is tiny.
They need frequent feeding.
Their nervous system is immature.
The American Academy of Pediatrics explains frequent waking is protective and supports growth.
This is not bad sleep.
This is normal sleep.
What matters more than total hours
Look for these signs:
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Baby wakes to feed
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Baby has alert periods
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Baby is growing
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Baby eventually settles with comfort
Sleep is not linear.
Some days will be harder.
Some nights will surprise you.
Creating comfort helps sleep
Babies sleep best when they feel secure.
Being held.
Being fed.
Being wrapped in something soft and familiar.
These small comforts remind them they are safe.
And safety helps sleep come easier.
What if my baby sleeps less than average?
Averages are just averages.
Some healthy babies sleep less.
Some sleep more.
What matters most is:
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Growth
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Feeding
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Overall wellbeing
Your pediatrician can help guide you if concerns arise.
A gentle reminder 🤍
Your baby is not a robot.
They are a human learning how to exist outside of you.
Sleep will come.
Slowly. Naturally. In time.
Until then, your arms, your presence, and your love are enough.
Research sources
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American Academy of Sleep Medicine — Infant sleep duration guidelines
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American Academy of Pediatrics — Normal infant sleep patterns
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National Sleep Foundation — Infant sleep needs